Should you date multiple people at once?
It’s a debate as old as time: date multiple people at once. Is it best to stick to one person at a time, or should you have three, four, or maybe five people in rotation? In this article, I will list the pros and cons of dating multiple people at once. Pro: You keep your options open When you date multiple people at once, you create more possibilities to fall in love. First dates and second dates often don’t lead to anything more, so why limit yourself right out of the gate? If you use a dating app, it’s easier than ever to just swipe some interesting prospects and plan…
How to not feel overwhelmed at work in 5 steps
We probably all know the feeling, you log in on Monday, or you start working again after a vacation, and your mailbox is filled to the brim, you have multiple meetings planned for that day and you feel like there’s an endless pile of work left to do. How do you deal with this? In this article, I share my five best tips for preventing feeling overwhelmed at your job. Tip 1: Good preparation goes a long way If you’re like me, and you’re bound to forget everything that you don’t write down, there’s one simple solution: make a list! Preferably, you make one list before the weekend, going on…
How to plan your first vacation with your partner
A first vacation with a new partner is often exciting, but can also cause you stress and worry. Especially if you both have different vacation preferences, and activity levels and if both of your past vacations differed much. In this article, I will give you the best advice on how to plan your first vacation with your partner. This article answers the following questions: Don’t wait too long to plan ahead Before you even start planning the first vacation, it’s important to remember that you shouldn’t wait too long with this. Say, you both have a week off in February. My advice would be to start discussing possible vacation plans as…
How to speak up more during work meetings as an overthinker
As an overthinker, I struggled for a long time with speaking up more during meetings. Active listening and taking notes, while also bringing up my talking points and responding to others, seemed like an impossible task. With these practical tips, I will advise you on how to be present, active, and responsive during meetings. Tip 1: Prepare the meeting beforehand Make it a habit to prepare for every meeting, preferably not five minutes before. A meeting is an opportunity to hear about new developments, create new chances for yourself to learn new skills, be involved with exciting projects, and connect with your coworkers. You should treat it as such, not…
5 tips on how to make more time for your hobbies
When I was a kid, I often felt like there weren’t enough hours in a day. I was always excited for the next day. Every day felt new and special, and I was always looking forward to the weekend, a holiday, and birthdays. Now that I’m older, I don’t really feel that way anymore. Often, I’m just happy to finally lie in bed and officially “end” the day. Throughout the (work)week, every day tends to feel the same and it seems like there’s a never-ending to-do list. How to change this? In my experience, it’s important to make time for your hobbies, or whatever you like to do in your…
Who should pay the bill on a date?
It’s often a very telling moment during a date: when the bill arrives. Who reaches for it first, and who has their card ready? Most people have a strong preference, they either prefer paying themselves, that the other person pays, or that the bill is split. But what is the easiest way to navigate this, and what to do if it gets awkward during or after the date? In this article, I will guide you through. First things first: always be prepared to pay Before the start of your date, you should always make sure you’re prepared to pay. Check if you have enough money to pay for your date and…
