How to speak up more during work meetings as an overthinker
As an overthinker, I struggled for a long time with speaking up more during meetings. Active listening and taking notes, while also bringing up my talking points and responding to others, seemed like an impossible task. With these practical tips, I will advise you on how to be present, active, and responsive during meetings. Tip 1: Prepare the meeting beforehand Make it a habit to prepare for every meeting, preferably not five minutes before. A meeting is an opportunity to hear about new developments, create new chances for yourself to learn new skills, be involved with exciting projects, and connect with your coworkers. You should treat it as such, not…
5 tips on how to make more time for your hobbies
When I was a kid, I often felt like there weren’t enough hours in a day. I was always excited for the next day. Every day felt new and special, and I was always looking forward to the weekend, a holiday, and birthdays. Now that I’m older, I don’t really feel that way anymore. Often, I’m just happy to finally lie in bed and officially “end” the day. Throughout the (work)week, every day tends to feel the same and it seems like there’s a never-ending to-do list. How to change this? In my experience, it’s important to make time for your hobbies, or whatever you like to do in your…
Who should pay the bill on a date?
It’s often a very telling moment during a date: when the bill arrives. Who reaches for it first, and who has their card ready? Most people have a strong preference, they either prefer paying themselves, that the other person pays, or that the bill is split. But what is the easiest way to navigate this, and what to do if it gets awkward during or after the date? In this article, I will guide you through. First things first: always be prepared to pay Before the start of your date, you should always make sure you’re prepared to pay. Check if you have enough money to pay for your date and…
